Im sick of being window-shopped

Well I am not sure what to write here. I was married and now divorced. I was burned by a cheater and a deceitful woman.It was pretty painful but I feel I have become a stronger person because of it. Since my seperation and divorce I have had trouble meeting someone of any substance. I joined Match.com and did E-Harmony but I feel like I am a pair of shoes in a window and if the brand name isnt there I get passed right by. If your not good at writing something about yourself you have already been judged by people. Written communication is way different than verbal expression.

Physical attraction I believe is a very important component to a long lasting relationship. But I have learned thru time that a persons outward beauty has no bearing upon whether they are beautiful on the inside.Id rather be with someone that is average looking but was a kind, goodhearted person rather than a super hot woman that cared nothing about other people and only cared about herself. There are a ton of people out there that have been burned by their spouses I know that. I believe they seek romance and want that soulmate to appear. I dont know if they exist or not but I am not going to give up the search. Just as important as physical attraction is the ability to communicate effectively and develop a friendship first and foremost. Having someone that has similar interests is definitely helpful as well.

Here is what I ideally seek:
a. A woman
b. 28-45 yrs old
c. Alright with children because I have a 11yr old
d. Attractive and fit
e. Self motivated with a positive outlook
f. someone enjoys laughing and having fun

About me
Im 63" 205 Lbs. Im fit and Ive been described as hot and/or handsome. I think my best quality is my caring, even keeled personality. I am extremely romantic and seek someone that is beautiful but appreciates it when a man buys them flowers, jewelry, holds the door, meets them for lunch. I want someone to know me on the inside and out and vice-versa. I need to know that the person I am with is honest, caring and giving. It would definitely be a plus if you enjoyed Sabres games, fine dining, wines, if you were tall and most of all you have to a great sense of humor.

I am very anxious about sending a photo out jsut because of my job and eople I know. Would love to hear from only woman that are serious about building a long term relationship. Please put Vodka Sauce in the title or all othrs will be deleted..

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